Kerry Vineer, BACP

Kerry Vineer helps people who are struggling with relationships, grief, trauma and intimacy. She works with individuals dealing with depression and sexual difficulties, and with people navigating issues like infidelity, separation and identity concerns. Kerry's approach is calm and grounded, aiming to make conversations easier to start and clearer to follow.

Kerry has practised as a psychotherapist in the United Kingdom for 22 years. She is also a trainee sexual and relationship therapist, which shapes how she talks about intimacy and sexual health. Kerry adapts sessions to each person's needs rather than using a single formula.

Her work often focuses on the here and now. She listens closely and helps people find their own answers. Sessions typically explore what matters most to the client and what practical steps might help them feel steadier.

Kerry is comfortable discussing a wide range of concerns including body image, kink and alternative sex culture, gender dysphoria, and process addictions such as problematic porn or gambling. She also supports those affected by sexual assault and self-harm, and people facing the challenges of divorce or separation.

People can expect conversations that are respectful and non-judgemental. Kerry aims to empower clients to make changes at a pace that suits them. She works in English and accepts international clients.

How Kerry's approach translates to online therapy

Kerry uses client-centred therapy which puts the person's concerns at the centre of each session. This approach emphasises listening and supporting people to find their own solutions, and it can help with relationship problems, grief, depression and intimacy issues.

She also brings a practical focus to conversations about sexual health and identity. Sessions aim to make talking about sensitive topics easier and to identify small steps that can reduce distress or improve communication in relationships.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the work together. Kerry discusses goals and preferences with each person and adjusts the style accordingly, so the plan fits the individual's needs and pace. This collaborative process helps shape whether sessions emphasise exploration, practical problem solving or emotional processing.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging suit people who prefer written reflection or need flexible timing. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel or family commitments and to maintain continuity when in-person meetings are not possible.